Bourbon, Club Reality, & Harry Potter

Sitting waiting for Tamika’s show with The 83 South Project (her band).
Today was a bit hectic, I was dog tired from last night, and Arion & Nya never sleep in. 🙂
Tamika’s Mom came down for the weekend, and so Tamika went to pick her up from the Greyhound.
Her mom made us breakfast and we headed down to DC.
Bourbon Coffee was having a family and friends get together, and invited us down. It was good to see everything together, and though there are still things to be done, the shop looks good. My friend Setti Solomon, who is handling the project management for Bourbon, Saleem Khaja (who handles legal matters and budget) and I got to talk and work out the next phases. They’re now opening up a shop in Boston too, and I’m really hoping I’ll be able to have Zerflin work on that too. There have been some mix ups on design approval that we’ve been ironing out, but I really enjoy working with them.

Setti had on a very pretty black dress, which inspired Tamika to try and find something at Macy’s for her show tonight.

Traffic was pretty bad on the way home (when is it not in DC) which made us pretty late for her show. Tamika’s mom made us spaghetti to go, and we rushed off.

Club Reality is a small, unassuming place, and it’s only about 10 minutes from our house. From the outside, it looks pretty run down, but I was impressed with how nice and spacious it was on the inside.
Our friend Twi Jackson has now joined the band, and I have to say, this was one of their best shows. Twi sang “what you would do for love” and blew it away. Tamika sang Marvin Gaye’s “I want you” and blew it away. She’s been working hard on her stage presence, and she really entertained the crowd.

Afterwards, we went out to see Harry Potter. Good movie. Tamika knows the storyline better than I, but I enjoyed myself.

2am? Time for an early bedtime…

Fatigue

So sleepy… It is now 4am, and I’m just getting to bed.
Tamika kept me company, and made me Chysanthemum tea with honey (so good).
I was working on magazine style excerpts for Heidi Durrow’s New book “The Girl Who Fell From The Sky”.
And I think, for the first time in my life, I got designer’s block.
Not because the client or subject was difficult to design for, but because my brain just decided to shut down after less than 4 hours of sleep a night…
Thanks to Tamika, I got my second wind and built a really nice layout.

Must. Have. Sleep…

Pete & Repeat

So, now Nya says everything we say. Everything.

Last week, I read a book with a kitchen scene to her, and pointed out each object.

(me pointing to the book) “Apple. This is an apple. Apple. You say; apple.” (and then I point to her lips)
“Abu.”
“Good! Book. This is a book. You say; book.”
“Bût.”
“Good. Girl. This is a girl. You say.”
“Gur.”
“Good. Frying pan. This is a frying pan. You say.”
“Fynpan.”

And so on.
SINCE then, she just says everything we say, without prompting.
Everything.

So needless to say, we’ve been editing out words like “jerk”, “douche-bag”, “punk” and “moron”.
Now, dinner conversations go like this:

Tamika: So, did that big project get done?
Benjamin: No. They decided to be Elmos and ask for revisions.
Nya: Ewmo!
Tamika: That stinks.
Benjamin: Yeah, they were a bunch of Big Birds. The completely Dora-ed the whole process, and sent it back for 6 Snufalumpagus revisions. I’m so sick of this Telly Monster project.
Nya: Dooo-wah! (Dora)
Tamika: I’m tired of them treating you like Ernie. How much more do you have to do with them?
Nya: Eehnie!
Benjamin: Not too much, this is the last project. It’s not the AE’s fault, the client is on it’s way out and it’s being a Backpack.
Nya: Bah-pat, BAH-PAT!

Physics

Just because I’m a graphic designer, doesn’t mean I can’t still love physics.

If you do to, you’re going to enjoy these. The explanation is pretty simple, if you don’t get it from the first video, you’ll understand by the last one.

Tamika has a Show: Stacey Carver at La Quinta Inn

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Tamika’s band, called 83 South Project, has a show this Saturday, May 30th.

It’s going to be held at La Quinta Inn in Glen Burnie, MD.

There are 2 shows, one at 8:30pm, and one at 10:30.

Comedian Stacey Carver is going to be headlining the event.

If you can come, please contact Tamika! The band has to sell some tickets for their spot in the lineup, and if you order them through her, you only have to pay $15 (they’re $20 at the door).

Why I love Tamika: she gives me hugs

Lately, I’ve been pulling 19-20 hour days, just trying to get everything done.

Last night, I got home late from a meeting with Bourbon Coffee, which was further exacerbated by a Mercedes doing an oscillatory dance between a 3-ton truck and a Kia right at the I-95 Northbound exit off of 459.

Tamika just needed to talk, because the kids had been driving her up a wall all day long. I listened quietly, and then our conversation spilled into finances. With a lot of help; we’ve been slowly digging ourselves out of our financial difficulties by surviving on a shoestring budget. But that has been taking it’s toll. Tamika wished we could afford a babysitter, and wondered about what our future was.

After a while, the conversation subsided. I glanced at the clock. It was 11:30.

I got up silently and went downstairs.

Tamika followed me, and quietly sat in the chair next to my desk.

“Why are you working?” she asked softly.

I stared at the screens for a moment while programs fluttered open. “It’s all I know how to do.” I replied, “It’s all I can think of to help out.”

Tamika got up, and took my head in her hands and held me close. We must have stayed like that for a half an hour. She just held my tight, played with my hair, rubbed my back, and smoothed out the lines of worry on my head.

She kissed me, then headed upstairs. A little while later, she came back down with a cup of hot chocolate with marshmallows and vanilla ice cream in it.

“Don’t stay up too late.” she smiled.

I love my wife.

Violas, Violins, and Anne Ristorcelli

Rough Vector work for Anne Ristorcelli
Rough Vector work for Anne Ristorcelli

So, I’m working on a website design at Merrick Towle, and my friend Matt Watier comes up to me.

Matt: What’s that for?
Me: I’m designing something for Anne Ristorcelli.
Matt: Who is she?
Me: A Violist.
Matt: A Violinist?
Me: No, a Violist. A Violin is smaller than a Viola.
Matt: Oh. So she’s small?
Me: <laughs> Yes, she’s the jockey of the Chamber Music World.

Interviewed

I’ve been interviewed by WhoHub.com
Below is a transcript of the interview.
What is your specialty?
Graphic Design, Illustration and Photography

Where can we view your portfolio online?
http://www.zerflin.com

What made you interested in design?

I always drew as a kid, and design definitely grew from that.

What has been your professional career path?
I started out as an Art and Computers teacher, actually. After that, I moved to a print shop, then to a non-profit’s graphics team, and then to a full-blown agency.
I started my own company in 1999, though, and have been running it since then.

Have you received any awards for your work in the field of design?
Nope, but that hasn’t really been my goal.

What is your motivation? What makes you get up in the mornings?
To be honest, not design. I get up because I like living. I definitely get raw joy out of just experiencing new things. The design is a reflection of that, and sometimes a source of that joy… but not the main source.

How would you define your design style?
Eclectic. I like mixing styles from various timeperiods… and from various cultures to come up with something new.

How do you promote and move your work?
Mainly through word of mouth. My customers have been the greatest mouthpieces for my work; and a few particularly vocal clients have actually become part of my team and now get paid to bring in new clients.

In which new areas would you like to experiment?
I am constantly experimenting by trying to break rules and seeing what happens. When I was learning screenprinting, I asked my professor what things had never been done before, and then went and tried them out.
The results were pretty cool.

Shapes, color, concept: where do you usually begin when conceiving a design?
Concept. I draw. A lot. Drawing helps loosen me up, and calms me down from whatever stresses I might have.

What are your sources for documentation and to generate ideas?
Oh, all kinds of things. I have stacks of magazines and folder and folders of images on my hard drive of just pure inspiration. I tend to keep a larger mental library, though, so I usually just let things stew and come out of that. I only look at my inspiration files when I’ve got designer’s block.

Which festivals or awards in your field do you find most interesting?
Never been to any. Not particularly interested. Any ones with free food?

What is your favourite type of customer?
The ones who say “I trust you, you’re the professional. Do what you do best”.
I live for those customers.

To a certain point, is copying justifiable?
No, I don’t think it is. I hate the use of clip art. If you like a piece of clip art, just redraw it! It might take more time, but the result will be better. If the result is worse, you need more drawing practice.
…and you can practice using the clip art as reference.
When you use something as reference, you’re putting your own spin on it. If it’s not your spin that the client is paying for, what ARE they paying for?

List some things you dislike seeing in design.
Templates. Pre-made stuff that’s applied to everything. Pick a different font. Make UP a different font. Try a different layout. Take an overused layout and work to make it so different it’s brand new. But don’t take the default settings at face value.

Do you believe the newer generations are better at designing?
Absolutely. And they should. They have a bigger pool of design to draw inspiration from.

With which type of client would you decline in working for?
Anything that hurts other people.

How do you calculate budgets for a design project?
By the hour. I estimate how long it will take to create, and then charge by the hour.

Which professionals in your field -contemporary or past- do you most admire?
I don’t know of many. I admire the way my professor David Kasparek critiqued without making you feel personally offended.

Which software applications do you most utilize in your work?
Everything Adobe makes. Photoshop, Illustrator, InDesign, Dreamweaver, After Effects, and Flash.

Up to what point do your designs reflect your personality?
Completely. My designs are a direct result of my personality, and often the way I’m feeling at that time.

How do you distinguish passing fads from mainstays in new trends?
By the time you realize it’s a trend, it’s on it’s way out. It’s better not to focus on such things.

If you weren’t a designer, what would you be doing?
Probably drawing, animating, or playing the piano.

At this moment, what would be your dream job or project?
My dream job? Anything where I can combine what I love with what I’m paid for.

Can you see yourself in this field twenty years from now?
Absolutely. And I hope to be.

Which design resources online do you frequently visit?
StumbleUpon, Logopond, and Advertising Age.

Nya Visits Jaju

Over Christmas 2007, we got to journey up to Connecticut to visit home. My grandfather Edward Jancewicz (Jaju) had recently taken a fall, and was in a recovery center.

He hadn’t been in high spirits, but when Nya came to visit him, he lit right up. My favourite photo is when my dad was swinging Nya in front of Jaju; every time she got really close they both burst into laughter.

Babchi (Martha Jancewicz, my grandmother) seemed so proud to hold her!

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